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Aug 25, 2010

Help your Child Kick the Thumb Sucking Habit

Thumb sucking is a concern many parents have. Toddlers suck their thumbs because it's comforting and calming. It's probably something they did before they were born and revert back to it when they are nervous, agitated, scared or ill. They may also use it to lull themselves back to sleep in the middle of the night.

Parents shouldn't concern themselves unless it continues after the age their permanent teeth begin to appear, around six years old. Experts say that it's the intensity of the thumb sucking and the tongue's thrust that deforms teeth and makes braces necessary later. Children who rest their thumb passively in their mouth are less likely to have difficulty than children who suck aggressively. If you're concerned, closely monitor your child and analyze his technique. If they appears to be sucking vigorously, you may want to begin curbing their habit earlier.

Punishing or nagging your child to stop won't help because it's usually an automatic response. Attempting to curb it by putting an elastic bandage on his thumb or another method will seem like unjust punishment, especially since they indulge in the habit for comfort and security.

Try to wait it out. Children usually give up thumb-sucking when they've found other ways to calm and comfort themselves. Consider offering them other alternatives to comfort themselves such as a soft blanket or lullaby toy

The key is to notice when and where they are likely to suck their thumbs and offer an alternative. If it happens while they are tired, try giving more naps. If they suck their thumb frequently while watching television, try to distract them with a toy that will keep their hands occupied.

Older children may need gentle reminders to curtail thumb sucking while in public, and praise should be given freely when the child finds and uses an acceptable alternative. Your child's pediatric dentist can offer other suggestions for helping your child kick the thumb sucking habit.

Aug 12, 2010

Suitable Clothing For Children

Infants are very susceptible of the impressions of cold; a proper regard, therefore, to a suitable clothing of the body, is imperative to their enjoyment of health. Unfortunately, an opinion is prevalent in society, that the tender child has naturally a great power of generating heat and resisting cold; and from this popular error has arisen the most fatal results. This opinion has been much strengthened by the insidious manner in which cold operates on the frame, the injurious effects not being always manifest during or immediately after its application, so that but too frequently the fatal result is traced to a wrong source, or the infant sinks under the action of an unknown cause.

The power of generating heat in warm-blooded animals is at its minimum at birth, and increases successively to adult age; young animals, instead of being warmer than adults, are generally a degree or two colder, and part with their heat more readily; facts which cannot be too generally known. They show how absurd must be the folly of that system of "hardening" the constitution (to which reference has been before made), which induces the parent to plunge the tender and delicate child into the cold bath at all seasons of the year, and freely expose it to the cold, cutting currents of an easterly wind, with the lightest clothing.

The principles which ought to guide a parent in clothing her infant are as follows:

The material and quantity of the clothes should be such as to preserve a sufficient proportion of warmth to the body, regulated therefore by the season of the year, and the delicacy or strength of the infant's constitution. In effecting this, however, the parent must guard against the too common practice of enveloping the child in innumerable folds of warm clothing, and keeping it constantly confined to very hot and close rooms; thus running into the opposite extreme to that to which I have just alluded: for nothing tends so much to enfeeble the constitution, to induce disease, and render the skin highly susceptible to the impression of cold; and thus to produce those very ailments which it is the chief intention to guard against.

In their make they should be so arranged as to put no restrictions to the free movements of all parts of the child's body; and so loose and easy as to permit the insensible perspiration to have a free exit, instead of being confined to and absorbed by the clothes, and held in contact with the skin, till it gives rise to irritation.

In their quality they should be such as not to irritate the delicate skin of the child. In infancy, therefore, flannel is rather too rough, but is desirable as the child grows older, as it gives a gentle stimulus to the skin, and maintains health.

In its construction the dress should be so simple as to admit of being quickly put on, since dressing is irksome to the infant, causing it to cry, and exciting as much mental irritation as it is capable of feeling. Pins should be wholly dispensed with, their use being hazardous through the carelessness of nurses, and even through the ordinary movements of the infant itself.

The clothing must be changed daily. It is eminently conducive to good health that a complete change of dress should be made every day. If this is not done, washing will, in a great measure, fail in its object, especially in insuring freedom from skin diseases.

During childhood.
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The clothing of the child should possess the same properties as that of infancy. It should afford due warmth, be of such materials as do not irritate the skin, and so made as to occasion no unnatural constriction.

In reference to due warmth, it may be well again to repeat, that too little clothing is frequently productive of the most sudden attacks of active disease; and that children who are thus exposed with thin clothing in a climate so variable as ours are the frequent subjects of croup, and other dangerous affections of the air- passages and lungs. On the other hand, it must not be forgotten, that too warm clothing is a source of disease, sometimes even of the same diseases which originate in exposure to cold, and often renders the frame more susceptible of the impressions of cold, especially of cold air taken into the lungs. Regulate the clothing, then, according to the season; resume the winter dress early; lay it aside late; for it is in spring and autumn that the vicissitudes in our climate are greatest, and congestive and inflammatory complaints most common.

With regard to material (as was before observed), the skin will at this age bear flannel next to it; and it is now not only proper, but necessary. It may be put off with advantage during the night, and cotton maybe substituted during the summer, the flannel being resumed early in the autumn. If from very great delicacy of constitution it proves too irritating to the skin, fine fleecy hosiery will in general be easily endured, and will greatly conduce to the preservation of health.

It is highly important that the clothes of the boy should be so made that no restraints shall be put on the movements of the body or limbs, nor injurious pressure made on his waist or chest. All his muscles ought to have full liberty to act, as their free exercise promotes both their growth and activity, and thus insures the regularity and efficiency of the several functions to which these muscles are subservient.

The same remarks apply with equal force to the dress of the girl; and happily, during childhood, at least, no distinction is made in this matter between the sexes. Not so, however, when the girl is about to emerge from this period of life; a system of dress is then adopted which has the most pernicious effects upon her health, and the development of the body, the employment of tight stays, which impede the free and full action of the respiratory organs, being only one of the many restrictions and injurious practices from which in latter years they are thus doomed to suffer so severely.

Aug 1, 2010

Tips for make up and skin care

‘Make up and skin care’ is generally regarded as women’s forte. Men seldom indulge in ‘Make up and skin care’. Many men do care for their skin but make up is really alien to most men. Treating make up and skin care as different topics wouldn’t make sense; after all, make up will work only if the skin is healthy. So how do you exercise make up and skin care, together? Here are some tips for make up and skin care:

* Always have skin care on mind, whether you are buying products for make up or actually applying them onto your skin after you have bought them. So what you are buying is a ‘make up and skin care’ product, not just a make up product. Check the ingredients to see if it contains things that you might be allergic to. Also check if it contains high concentration chemicals that can harm your skin.

* ‘Make up and skin care’ is also about testing the products before using them. So, apply the make up on a small patch of skin e.g. earlobes and check how your skin reacts to it.

* Keep track of expiry date on your make up products and never use them beyond the expiry date. In fact some products (e.g. vitamin C based products), if not stored properly, get spoilt much earlier than the expiry date.

* Cleanliness is an important part of make up and skin care procedure. Sharpen your eye-liners regularly and keep all your makeup equipment clean at all times. You might fix a date, each month, for overhauling of your equipment. As part of cleanliness, your make up and skin care procedure should also include keeping your hair clean at all times.

* Nail care is another important aspect of make up and skin care. Use a good quality nail polish and always keep your nails clean. Once you are done with cleaning and polishing your nails, you should rub in cuticle oil at the edges of the nail.

* If you have deep-set eyes, you should use a liquid eye liner instead of a pencil one. This will prevent smudging at the deep edges of your eye-lid.

* If you have a skin disorder e.g. acne, you should not apply heavy or chemical based make up. Consult your dermatologist if you are not sure about the make up products that you can use while you have acne or other skin disorder. Never try to squeeze pimples/ acne. Remember that make up and skin care should not conflict each other.

* Use a mild make up remover (instead of just washing it away).

* Another important ‘make up and skin care’ procedure is the following golden rule: “Never sleep with your make up on”

* While applying a deodorant, make sure that you maintain the recommended distance between the nozzle and your skin (as mentioned on the deodorant pack).

So, make up and skin care should always go hand in hand. Do not try to treat make up and skin care differently.

Sep 6, 2009

Parenting help That Aide Your Child To Attain That Feeling Of Self-Importance

by Jessy Wendy

For a child to develop a proper sense of self-esteem, he or she needs to be good about him or herself. Self-confidence is crucial for your child to face many harshness of the world. A child who have a healthy self esteem generally approach the world in a more positive manner as well as with good liveliness.

Most studies in good parenting show that most children who are self assured also tend to perform better both extra curricular and academically activities. And that they are also more sociable, can deal with their peers better, and make friends to their fellow kids easier. Good parenting help can get you going as a parent in no time.

However, children who lack self confidence frequently find themselves upset or uneasy about different things in their lives particularly with issues involving the society.This may show that you as a parent did not do much about parenting help or that parenting help available was not really availed or used.Using effective parenting help to Influence the development of the child's sense of self-worth is the biggest role that you should play as their parent.

You must always keep congratulating your child whenever he or she did something good. Such is a common parenting help employed by most parents. Parenting help teachings tells you to support to raise their abilities as well as talents, and continually emphasize their sense of self-worth by pointing out the areas wherein they stand out.

Certainly, parenting help experts would tell you that you have to give out honor when it is be worthy of. Praising your kid whether he or she deserved it or not will not bring any result that you hoped to attain but a common parenting help tip tells you to give praises when it is due.Be honest with your child, never attempt to tell a lie just to convince him/ her.Instead, show that even you as a parent face also some moments of insecurity and commit mistakes too.

As a good parenting help tip, you need to tell your child that he/ she must learn from every mistakes and failures. Another good parenting help tip is to get focused and pay much attention on your child. Realize the fact that you must be a role model so as your child will see you developing and learning from mistakes.

This parenting help tip will allow your child to learn most of the things from you. As the child grow on, he or she might develop negative view about them and their abilities. A good parenting help advice for this case would be to do your very best to guide your child achieve clear thoughts and teach them to determine right from wrong basically.A child will as well benefit for having sensible expectations about their life, and you should defend against any overbearing potentials that your child must have for him or herself.

The best parenting help tip to use is to build up a child's sense of self esteem is to cultivate a specific talent or capability by setting ambitions or errands that involves that specific capabilities.

Once your children see that they can easily succeed in these fields, their sense of self worth will probably develop.Pay attention on your child as he/ she grows, encourage him to a better way by following some parenting help tips that will help you to easily do your role, and in the future he / she will be that person that is full of self worth, esteem and confidence.

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Apr 16, 2008

Why You Shouldn't Punish Your Child For Toilet Training Accidents


Toddlers can be toilet trained anywhere between the age of 18 months and 36 months and it depends entirely on each individual child how fast he or she adapts themselves to potty training. While you toilet train your child you will find that there are many occasions when toilet training accidents can take place. Try your level best to deal with these toilet training accidents with utmost calmness and patience.


When your child faces any toilet training accidents help him or her to come out of their wet clothes into dry ones. Moreover, try to be loving and kind instead of getting angry. This will only scare the child more.

If the child happens to wet or soil the bed at night help the child to be cleaned up gently, have the sheets on the bed changed and put the child back to sleep. During potty training if and when accidents like these happen and you start to loose your patience and get angry it is no way going to help in the progress of toilet training.

Do not ever punish your child for any toilet training accidents which may occur, as it will only end up hurting the child's self-esteem and bring down his or her confidence level.

Toilet training accidents can happen up to 6 months after the child has started toilet training and it is normal to expect such eventualities by the parent. If you see any improvements then you can be rest assured that your toilet training is going on smoothly without any hitch.

If you find that your child is having more accidents than having smooth experiences while toilet training then you be rest assured that your child is not ready for toilet training as yet. Wait for another 2 or 3 months when the child is more receptive before you embark on toilet training again.Toilet train your child only when he or she is ready to be toilet trained otherwise you will find that the child will put up a lot of resistance if he or she is forced to toilet train. Come to terms that it is absolutely normal for a child to have toilet training accidents and try not to make a big issue out of it.

There are some children who would refuse to be toilet trained and this warrants that the parents sit back and analyze what is making the child refuse to be toilet trained. Be loving and gentle with your child while your toilet train them as it is patience coupled with reassurance that goes a long way to help the child to be toilet trained eventually.

You can read articles written by other parents on how they toilet trained their kids. On the internet you will find plenty of websites that cater to toilet training for children. Here you will be able to learn a lot of things about toilet training. You can also read articles on how other mothers coped with toilet training accidents when they toilet trained their children.

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